Wedding Budgeting: Splurge vs. Save Guide
Wedding budgeting doesn’t have to mean cutting corners, it’s about knowing where to invest for the most memorable experience. Most luxury Austin couples splurge on experience-defining moments like the venue, catering, and entertainment and save on trend-driven extras that don’t add lasting value.
💌 From the Desk of Your Fairy Wedmother
By Karen Moise | Owner of Ma Maison | 40+ Years of Wedding Wisdom
Splurge-worthy wedding investments:
- The Venue: Especially at top wedding venues in Austin TX like Ma Maison, the venue sets the entire tone.
- Photography + Videography: Timeless, emotional memories deserve professional storytelling.
- Food & Beverage: Guests will remember how they were treated—and how they dined.
- Entertainment: A live band or elevated DJ changes the energy of your night.
- Planning Support: A wedding planner or coordinator ensures smooth sailing.
Save-worthy areas:
- Favors: Most are left behind. Consider a fun guest experience instead.
- Trendy Rentals: Instead of overpriced chairs or neon signs, prioritize comfort and function.
- Printed Extras: Digital RSVPs and QR menus are chic and eco-friendly.
- Late-Night Snacks: Fun, but optional. A good meal is more impactful.
- Overdone Florals: Focus on focal points (ceremony arch, head table) and go minimalist elsewhere.
How Karen Guides Couples at Ma Maison
Your Venue Sets the Vibe (and the Budget)
The venue you choose affects every detail—from your date and vendors to your layout and logistics. Karen Moise, owner of Ma Maison, shares:
“We always tell our couples—when you choose the right venue, you save time, stress, and money. It’s your backdrop, your guest experience, and your Plan A and B for weather all in one.”
Couples who invest in luxury wedding venues like Ma Maison often find they don’t need as many décor rentals because the venue itself does the heavy lifting.
Food, Photography & Fun—The Big Three
Every guest will remember:
- How they were fed
- How they were entertained
- How they felt in the space
A professional caterer, a curated playlist, and meaningful lighting can elevate an event from nice to unforgettable. Karen explains:
“Splurge on what engages the senses. Think of it as the luxury version of hospitality.”
Savings That Don’t Steal the Spotlight
It’s easy to fall into the Pinterest trap—but Karen encourages couples to spend where it matters most.
Smart savings:
- Ditch party favors for a dessert station or send-off bar
- Replace menu cards with a digital display
- Use local, in-season florals for impact without the import fees
“We’ve hosted over 1,000 weddings, and the happiest couples always put people before things,” Karen adds.
FAQs
What’s the biggest budget mistake couples make?
Spending too much on trending items—like custom cocktail napkins or overpriced florals—and too little on guest comfort.
Can you still have a luxury wedding on a smaller budget?
Absolutely. Focus your splurges on high-impact elements like a stunning venue, elegant food, and a seamless timeline.
How much should couples budget for their venue in Austin?
Luxury venues in Austin like Ma Maison range between $6,000–$15,000+ depending on the season, day, and amenities included.
What areas do couples regret not investing in?
- Day-of coordination
- Lighting
- Videography
Should I DIY to save money?
DIY can work if it’s minimal and meaningful. But don’t take on too much—it often leads to burnout.
Real Numbers – Sample Splurge vs. Save Budget Breakdown
Here’s a quick-glance wedding budget scenario for a 125-person wedding at a luxury Austin venue like Ma Maison.
| Category | Splurge ($) | Save ($) |
| Venue | $10,000 | $4,500 (off-peak venue) |
| Planner | $5,000 | $1,500 (day-of only) |
| Photography/Videography | $8,000 | $3,000 |
| Catering & Bar | $15,000 | $9,000 |
| Entertainment | $6,000 | $2,000 |
| Rentals/Decor | $4,000 | $1,200 |
| Florals | $5,000 | $2,000 |
| Favors | $1,000 | $250 |
| Total | $54,000 | $23,450 |
Pro Tip: Splurging doesn’t mean excess. It means investing with intention.
Karen’s Top 5 Wedding Budgeting Rules
- Start with your venue: It affects every other line item.
- Budget for the guest experience first: Food, music, ambiance.
- Don’t skip coordination: A planner prevents costly mistakes.
- Prioritize memories: Invest in pros who capture and elevate the day.
Be realistic: Have a top budget number and stick to it.
Ready to See Where It’s Worth It?
Looking for a venue that delivers both luxury and peace of mind? Tour Ma Maison where every detail is intentionally designed to elevate your celebration.
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